2 Cor. 5:17 says, Therefore, if anyone is in Christ...the old has gone, the new is here!
To hold to stuff from your past is to forfeit your position in the future to receive what God has prepared for you. To receive what God wants to give, you must have "open hands." Never allow the enemy to convince you to keep your hands wrapped around the failures and mistakes of your past that it prevents you from opening your hands to what God has for you in your future. Remember closed hands will never get anything. Today, do not allow your hands to be closed to the blessings in your future because of some mess that took place in your past. Forgive yourself and move on. God has better for you so stop looking back. Keep your eyes on Jesus and all that's good!